Everything You Wanted To Know About Strapon Pegging And Were Afraid To Ask
Not everyone is comfortable approaching the subject of pegging. You may think it’s awkward to say “baby, would it be okay if I bent you over for a change?” Well, you’re not exactly wrong. There is an element of awkwardness to asking it flat out. But, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to try something new. Especially if both parties are on board for the events.
If it’s something you’re interested in trying, you may not know how to approach it. Regardless of which side you’re on. Men aren’t always going to be comfortable with exploring sexual desires that stray from “the norm”. Women aren’t always going to be comfortable asking to take complete control. But, opening yourselves up to this kind of experience can be absolutely amazing. Giving into these desires to explore can even bring you closer together as a couple!
What should you know before getting started?
First things first:
There’s no shame in asking.
As mentioned, there are many people uncomfortable with approaching the subject of strapon pegging. But, you’re not alone! There are so many others out there trying and loving the whole pegging environment. As the man, it might feel a little degrading to surrender to something like this. But, you’re really just giving your partner a chance to feel how you always feel when the positions are reversed. It’s a beautiful thing to share with one another – as long as you’re both on board! Plus, there is a reason that pegging is popular and it’s not about control. Men have pleasure spots inside of their anus that simply feel amazing when stimulated. If you’ve never tried a bit of anal play, you’re missing out!
Next: Make sure you’re prepared!
Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally as well. Strapon pegging is a whole new experience and if you’re not ready, don’t rush yourselves. You want this to be a positive experience, not something shameful. Don’t rush your partner if you’re getting eager, either. Take your time and build your partner up. Use plenty of lubrication, especially if it’s the first time you’re trying anything anal.
Be gentle and move carefully.
It may be a shocking feeling for your partner initially. Expect there will be some resistance at first, especially physically. But your partner will warm into it if you are taking it slow enough for them to adjust. Men – let yourselves enjoy the experience! There’s nothing wrong with strapon on pegging with your partner! It’s a bonding experience, one that can be quite enjoyable.
That being said, if you’re really uncomfortable, stop.
No sexual experience should take place if one of the parties are uncomfortable. There’s a difference between warming up to something and simply not enjoying it. If you know you’re not enjoying the strapon pegging, just stop. Do not feel pressured into anything because your partner is into it. Yes, we’re all guilty of “going along” with something our partners want in the bedroom. Even when we weren’t sure. But, this is a really intense experience. If you’re not into it, you won’t get into it and it will simply hurt you and the relationship.
Strapon pegging requires a good deal of trust, on both ends.
The men are in a position of vulnerability, giving themselves over to their partners. They expect that surrendering that power will be met with respect. They expect that their partner will take note of boundaries and stop if asked. The same way in reverse, women expect that they will be able to enjoy themselves. Not feel rushed and forced to go along with something.
Your strapon pegging experience should be a rewarding one. It will be, if you’re both getting on the same page. Know what positions are the best for first-timers and know what type of tools and toys you should be using as a warm-up. This information can enhance the pleasure that both parties will certainly feel.
