The first thing you need to understand about pegging is the pleasure is largely psychological. There are ways that the interaction can be physically pleasureable, but it’s largely the brain that gets the most excited.
For many, it’s a thrill to be doing something different. It’s stepping outside the box of traditional love-making, allowing partners to take turns. When a man is being pegged by a woman, he is giving himself to her in a different way. He is surrendering control, allowing himself to be vulnerable. This is a huge turn-on to woman who want to feel more powerful every once in a while.
But, sometimes the mental stimulation isn’t enough to get the juices flowing. So, what are the other ways a woman can find pleasure in pegging?
Since the ideal for sex is that both partners enjoy themselves, a woman should feel comfortable pleasuring herself and her partner at the same time. This doesn’t have to be with toys. It can be with fingers. It can be internal or external stimulation. There are many combinations of both that could add to the pleasure of pegging, so experiement with what works best for you and your partner.
Vibrators
Vibrators are commonly used during pegging sessions to aid in the orgasm of the female. These vibrators can often by used in combination with a harness to allow added stimulation for both parties. There are many strap-on’s that are made with vibrators inside of them as well. However, the vibrating strap-on may be a little too intense for the person on the receiving end. Not everyone enjoys internal vibrations, so it will largely depend on what your partner enjoys.
If your partner doesn’t enjoy internal vibrations, you can opt for a harness with a pocket inside. These harnesses are designed to hold the smaller, bullet vibrators. These have lighter sensations and aren’t likely to over-stimulate either party. They are only lightly felt by the person on the other end of the strap-on, so it’s a better ideal for more comfortable play.
Dildos
Dildos are another option for pleasure during pegging sessions. A woman can use one on herself internally, to acheive her own orgasm. She may choose to use one with a base, allowing her to ride it. Or, she may want to use one that she controls. This way, she can pleasure herself, while pleasuring her partner. This is the most preferred method if your partner doesn’t enjoy vibrators.
Double-Sided
Finally, one of the options for pegging is a double-sided dildo. This one can be a little more tricky, because of health concerns. The vaginal entrance cannot come into contact with fluids from an anus at any point, or serious health issues may arise. There are double-sided dildos that account for this, using a wall between the two ends to prevent partners from connecting. Or, use of condoms is recommended, to reduce the risk of infection.
No matter what kind of sex you’re having, you should always play safe! Make sure to use condoms with your toys, plenty of lubricant in sensitive areas and wash after each use. Enjoying such an intimate experience with your partner is all about exploring. Just make sure it’s pleasurable for both parties and performed safely.
