One of the best things about any relationship is a shared trust in each other. Let’s face it, without trust, we have nothing. Our love lives rely on that trust to truly have the chance to flourish. Although, many people like to forget how important trust is. It can really change a relationship when that trust is broken. Similarly, it can increase the trust in your relationship to try something new and take a risk together.
Sometimes, that can trust can lead to trying new and exciting things, like pegging.
Of course it’s not the most talked about position in love-making, but it’s one of the most pleasurable overall. Why? Because both parties are getting something more than physical satisfaction. They are mutually demonstrating their trust in one another, which will ultimately bring two people closer together.
That’s the biggest secret that any pegging partners will share with you: It’s all about the trust.
That being said, it’s a hard sell to a complete stranger. You may not feel comfortable asking to try this with someone you barely know. It’s best suited to be shared between two people who have already developed an intimate relationship with one another.
If you’ve never tried pegging, it’s definitely a personal recommendation. It’s a wild experience, unlike anything else. It’s intense in a way that you would never imagine a sexual act could even be. Maybe it’s because of the role-reversal of pegging. Maybe it’s because of the physical pleasure involved. Or maybe it’s simply the idea of trying something so out-of-the-box. Either way, it’s amazing.
Now, that’s not saying it’s for everyone, because it isn’t. You may try it and decide it’s just not for you. Hey, to each their own. But, giving it a chance will help you to determine your likes and dislikes, maybe even open new doors for your future love-making.
Along with trust, open communication is a must-have. This is the type of sexual act that really relies on a deep communication between both partners. You have to be able and willing to express what you like and don’t like. On both ends! Both parties will have to let each other know what feels good and what doesn’t. More importantly, you have to be willing to listen to the concerns of your partner. In order to be good pegging partners, you’ll need to become familiar with what works and what doesn’t. Naturally, you won’t know these details the first time you give pegging a try. It will take a session or two to truly understand what works.
With that said, patience is also a virtue when. Pegging does require a little bit of foreplay to get both partners ready for the action. It’s not like vaginal sex, which we often jump into without too much thought. Because of the delicacy and intimacy involved in pegging, passion goes a long way. Take your time and don’t rush each other. You’re both going to want to enjoy yourselves, right?
Finally, along with trust, communication and patience, you have to be willing to compromise. What feels good for one partner might not feel good for another. You have to find a balance between what both of you enjoy, in order to have a truly positive experience.
