It’s easy enough to figure out the benefits of pegging for a male participant. Yes, it’s a little uncomfortable for the first-timers, but it quickly turns into a whole new world of excitement. Men have pleasure spots inside of their anus. When stimulated, this can bring on a whole new kind of orgasm. Especially if that man isn’t used to anal play and is just getting into it. It’s an amazing feeling, once you get around the initial discomfort.
But, what exactly is the incentive for a woman? She doesn’t get any pleasure from wearing a strapon and pegging someone, does she?
It may surprise you to find out, but, she does!
You’re probably thinking: “Well, yeah, she can use toys on herself or something. That doesn’t count. That’s not the same thing.” True. It’s not the same thing. Of course a woman can pleasure herself while pegging her partner. This can stimulate her and even bring her to an orgasm. That’s one of the types of pleasure she can get from pegging. But that’s not what we’re referring to. We’re referring to the real appeal of pegging: The psychological side.
The biggest pleasure of pegging with a strapon is actually the role reversal.
It’s not often that a woman gets to have sex in the position of a man. Pegging with a strapon gives any woman the chance to know how it feels to be on the giving end, instead of on the receiving end. The female partner often takes full control in pegging sessions, because she is the one with the equipment being used. The male will completely surrender to the experience.
There it is. That’s the real thrill!
It is a sexual turn-on to have your man completely surrender to the experience. To have your man open and vulnerable for you gives you a whole new sense of control over him. To see the way he moves is visually stimulating to anyone who experiences the sight. To hear the sounds he makes can just push you over the edge and drive you crazy.
Pegging is one of the most intense experiences you can share with someone.
Every woman will say it’s a whole new level of being intimate with their man. Any man who has tried it will say the same thing. There’s a trust associated with giving someone that type of control. As a man, you’re saying to your partner that you trust them enough to let them do this to you. You are giving them the power to hurt you in a whole new way. But, you are also letting them know you believe they won’t. You trust them. If you’ve ever asked a woman her most valued aspect of a relationship, it’s trust. Sharing yourself in such a way can actually bring you closer to your partner.
Of course, pegging with a strapon isn’t always comfortable. Especially at first. The first time you try it, you’ll feel slightly violated. At the same time, you’ll likely want to do it again, because the physical pleasure of it all is intense. For a woman, the intensity lies within her mind: Knowing what she gets to do, how she gets to do it and how her man will react to her.
It’s really a winning situation for both parties.
