If you’re interested in pegging, then good for you! You’ve made a positive decision to increase the intimacy of your relationship. Now, you’ve just got to get your partner on board with the whole idea. Sometimes, that’s easy enough. Other times, it may take a little convincing. Overall, your partner is likely to want to share in this experience with you. After all, it’s new and exciting. What’s not to love?
Once you’ve got them on board, you’re going to want to know what comes next. Well, you do, of course! Alright, before you get to climax there is bit of a lead up. Let’s talk a little about secrets to pegging:
1. There Is A Lead Up
First things first: You do have to build up to pegging. It’s not like vaginal sex. It’s much more delicate. You don’t have to spend hours getting ready, but, you should spend a bit of time preparing your partner. You can use fingers or toys, but make sure that your partner is physically ready for the insertion. Also, you’ll want to use a good deal of lubricant, especially if it’s the first time you’re giving pegging a try!
2. Take It Slow
It’s so easy to completely lose yourself. You’ll both surrender into how good it feels and just want to go with it. That’s good. But, don’t rush it either. Especially at first, you’re going to want to take it slow. You’ve got to consider both parties, physically and emotionally. You want to share this experience, not just enjoy it on your own. Make sure your partner is there with you.
3. Communicate
That brings us right into the next point that an open line of communication is very important. You want to know that what you’re doing feels good to your partner. You want to know they are enjoying themselves as much as you are. You won’t know if you don’t express your thoughts. Obviously, during the experience, you’re unlikely to have a full conversation. But, you can manage to get out a few words to let your partner know where you are.
4. Switch It Up
At first, you’ll want to maintain a steady pace in a comfortable position. But once you’re more used to how pegging feels, switch it up! Change positions next time, or even during. Find something comfortable for both of you, that works at the right angle. Use your hands to play with one another and enhance the pleasure of it all. You can even bring toys into the equation!
