Answered: Your Most Burning Questions About Pegging

Answered: Your Most Burning Questions About Pegging

You’ve likely heard the term “pegging”. A part of you is curious to know what it’s all about. At the same time, you’re not sure who to ask or where to even find that kind of information. If you’ve arrived here, you’re on the right track! We’re going to answer some of the most burning questions about pegging!

What is pegging?

The term itself refers to a female partner wearing and using a strapon with her male companion. This provides a role-reversal, where the woman is pegging her man. There are many options for pegging partners, regarding positions. In fact, almost anything is open, as long as both parties are comfortable and enjoying themselves.

Why would anyone do that?

There are longer and more complicated answers, but, you’re likely not interested. To put it simply: It’s fun. Pegging provides a more intimate experience for two lovers who are interested in deepening their connection. It builds trust and communication, while opening the door to many more possibilities in the bedroom.

Does it actually feel good? For the man…

This is a common question, especially from men who haven’t had any type of anal play in the past. There’s no point in saying “it feels amazing the whole time”, because that’s not true. It does feel strange at first. Many say it feels like an invasion or intrusion. It feels compromising and makes the male feel vulnerable. It can be hard to give into the feeling. But, once you do, it really does feel amazing. After all, the erogenous zones are being stimulated through this type of play.

What about for the female? What does she get?

Different women enjoy pegging for entirely unique reasons. There’s no way to categorize every single one. Many of them like the control it gives them, or enjoy the power rush. Many simply enjoy the sounds that their men make during the act. Largely, it does seem the pleasure is psychological and not physical. Although, there are many combinations that can make the experience enjoyable for a woman as well, such as toys.

How does it work?

It may seem confusing to think of a woman in a man’s role in the bedroom. We are, by nature, creatures of habit and comfort. We know what we know and pegging does seem a little strange for an outsider. But, there’s no real mechanical difference. The positions are the same. The practice is the same. The only thing that really changes is the level of intimacy involved. It’s a deeper kind of satisfaction, getting to share such an experience with someone.

How do I tell my partner I want to try pegging?

Expect to get a strange look at first. There’s no secret that it’s not exactly a “mainstream” act. Many people have never heard of pegging and will have to ask what it even means. Others will know, but not be sold on the pleasure of the act. It really all depends on how comfortable your partner is going to be. You don’t want to push them to do something they aren’t comfortable with. So, try and lead up to the question. Ask if they’ve ever considered role-reversal. Ask if they know what pegging is. Ask if it’s something they would be willing to try. Explain the benefits. Explain wanting that deeper connection. Usually, that’s enough to sell the idea to someone. As long as you trust each other and communicate effectively, you should enjoy yourselves.